Friday, 13 April 2012

THEY SAID SOMEDAY, I SAID TODAY

They said someday they'll grow up
They said someday they'll be rich
They said someday they'll be famous
They said someday they'll enjoy their lives
They said someday..., someday... and someday....

But....

I said today I grow up
I said today I'm rich
I said today I'm famous
I said today I enjoy my life
I said someday never comes
Because the true face of someday is today

Thursday, 1 March 2012

GO ON


Vacation must go on
Life must go on
Whatever it takes
Just enjoy it!
Be Happy :)

Monday, 13 February 2012

How The New Brand Manager Impressed Us (Journal Of A Stress Worker)

We got a new brand manager that day. Well the first impressions toward him:
1. He's tall
2. He might has a nice body because he goes to gym regularly
3. He must be very experienced in his job field
4. He can lead our company to a new better change with his thoughts
5. He's married
6. We welcome him so well because he's expected

The good impressions just last for few days... And few days later, there are second impressions toward him:
1. He's just a talking parrot, he knows how to talk but don't know how to act
2. He's a butt licker, blabber mouth, bluffer if he's in front of Herr Der or when Herr Der shown up in the office
3. He always blame on his staffs for the mistake he'd done by himself.
4. He's a big liar. He always says that how hard working he is, just sleep 3-4 hours a day because he must finishes his assignments given by Herr Der. Actually, he's just hanging around doing nothing, just turn on and off the laptop and surfing to any sites and chatting, all his assignments he passes to the other division's staff that he/she doesn't know clearly about it. And when the day come, Herr Der asked about the file, he just gave the reason that he lost his file (Very lame reason)
5. He actually never had good records in his former company, and we knew that he's fired because of his own bad, we tracked it secretly.
6. None job has done clear and there is always excuses.
7. His fault when assigned Queen Bee to do his job, he's just an idiot brand manager, and Queen Bee didn't feel very happy after all because it's not her line to do his job.
8. After all, he's not a good decision maker, he even can't decide a simple thing.
9. We give him a nick "Rotten nut cake" at his back, *giggle...

*sigh... And Herr Der is also a stupid person when decided to hire him

Letter To Smokers

Smokers,
Cigars may indulge you
But do you realize that it will kill us silently?

Smokers,
When you smoke around us,
Have you ever thought about our health?

Smokers,
When you smoke around us,
Do you know that we really hate the smoke you've made?

Smokers,
If you don't care about us,
Why don't you care about yourself?

Smokers,
If you care about yourself,
You should realize that every smoke you've made shortening your life span

Smokers,
If you don't care your life
Do you realize that people who loves you will be sad because you're gone with the smoke someday?

Smokers,
If you never care around you,
then smoke your cigars with nobody around you...

Smokers,
You must be the most idiot persons in this world,
after you've known all the negative sides of cigars,
but you still smoke it...
Pity on YOU!!


Health is the most important treasure in the world

Sunday, 22 January 2012

This Little World Has Changed The World Arround Me

Realize it or not but you should proof it before you believe this!
Our little world in our head, A.K.A our mind is really powerful.


When you wake up in the morning, you smile, you're feeling so good because you just had a very good dream, and you open the window to feel the morning breeze on your face, to feel the comforting sunshine upon you. You take a deep breath.. "Aahh... what a wonderful day!"
When you think like this, the whole day become a wonderful day to you. You can even smile and greet your neighbors or even anyone on the road you've met. Also, you become very generous, you're willing to help everyone who needs your help. You can see their thankful faces, feel their happiness and you also are happy too. And the day is closed with great thing happening, that makes you feel soooo happyyy!!! Maybe you meet an old friend, or you get a surprise, or you get bonus, or else.

And the next day....
You wake up late. You're very late to the office and you damn everything, "SHIIITT!!!" You have to rush this morning. You can't catch a bus or train or subway, even none of the taxis. Again you feel annoying, upset, worry, frustrating and again you say, "SHIT!"
Or if you drive to the office, when you're caught on traffic in the morning or your should stop when there's red light, which makes your patient meter to sub-zero level, you start to damn everything even to the traffic light that is just a non-living thing.
The whole day, then, become a very shitting day to you, no smiling, your colleagues' faces become something that you're not willing to see, or you will be annoyed by them. When you look at the mirror, you will see the frown on your forehead and your lips down.
And the day is closed terribly and stress weighs you down. Some of you might get insomnia...

These two cases might happen to us, well, some of us.
This is the play actually made by our mind, which our mind has controlled us and not us controlling our mind.
Be wise, dear friends...
We're the master of our own mind, so don't be slaved by our own mind.
When the negative feeling has popped up in our mind, then quickly realized it, don't let bad mood changed your good day to bad day.
You should stop! Take a breath, as long as you can, you know your heart has stomped so fast, and take a breath again, repeat it several times. Say to yourself something good, maybe "It's okay," or "All is well", or "I'm cool!"
Never blame or damn anything when you can't catch a bus, train, subway or taxi or you're caught on traffic or you run out of gas. When you feel frustrating because of this terrible situation, get to realize your breath again, realize your heart beat again, realize that you've made frown on your face, realize your now-movements, then, try to smile again, say something good to yourself... "This situation might happen to me now or later, it's just common natural thing, so, this ain't a big problem"
Then feel that the good energy has flown to your body and hope that you can say again, "What a wonderful day....!!!" Then it's yours... Be Happy :)

"Wake up in the morning with a happy smiling face, the whole day is ruled by you."

Monday, 2 January 2012

Happiness is HERE and NOW

Happiness.. Who doesn't want it? Everybody always want to have a happy living. Some of you may think that "I will be happy if I can get this or that or find this or that or achieve this or that or blah blah blah.." ( It will make a long story)
But once we can get what we want, do we ever think that "It's enough, I'm happy now, this is my happiness."?
No, no... I never think so, once we're still alive or breath and any blood still runs in our vein, it's never enough. For example, I want to run 100m in 10 secs tomorrow, and I can make it. And the day after tomorrow, I want to make it in 9 secs and the other day in 8 secs and so on.
Yes, we never feel enough and always run and run and run and may think that if we're still running we will achieve what we call "happiness". But have you ever think that actually what we think it's a happiness just stepping far far away from us when we try hard to grab it?
If we can't grab it, we're very sad and it becomes the end of the day, A.K.A Dooms day.
Come on friends... Happiness is never be anywhere. It's just HERE and NOW, this moment. If we can stop running even just a minute, feel that moment, the present moment we live now.
Feel the air we take, look around us, feel inside our body and heart, hear any sounds and build up your awareness, drop any worries, lock any negative thoughts and feelings inside the garage... Happiness will come to you, approach you with no sound.... and you will know what is enough.

Breathe in...
Breathe out...
Breathe in...
Breathe out...

Happiness is here and now
I have dropped my worries
Nowhere to go, nothing to do
No longer in a hurry

Happiness is here and now
I have dropped my worries
Somewhere to go, something to do
But not in a hurry
By Plum Village Monastic

Hope that song will remind us every time :)
Be Happy and Have Fun All Day

"The happy person is the one who knows his own feeling/heart very well and can manage it well without exploitation to negative attitude."

"ADORABLE" Queen Bee In Action! (Journal Of A Stress Worker)

OH, my, my, my.... I ever wished that I could be like her, our company Queen Bee. She's gorgeous, beautiful, rich and high educated, any girls might have envied her. Men in our company liked her so much. They would be very happy when she passed by to their division. They also loved her scent: sweet, lovely and elegant. Any other girls were just like invisible if she's among them.

Not only the male staffs like her, even our boss Herr Der likes her so much. Every decision she had made just approved easily, even though not all of those decisions were good, and might caused difficulties to other division, such as my division. She always made something that she called fine system or rule that really a nightmare to me and others. Nevertheless we spoke nothing. When we ever filed and reported to Herr Der, he wouldn't take it seriously, and the other side he hit me with his poop again and said, "Queen Bee just make our system better and don't you dare to fail it."
Well, I never think to fail any of the system, just I like something that flexible and efficient, the system that Queen Bee made were just wasting time, energy and money. It had caused complaint from partnership. And for sure that my position in the company was just the same as Queen Bee's, not lower than hers or higher than hers. But I should obey Queen Bee's fine rule because in Herr Der's eyes, Queen Bee is the best. And in the other hand, it made Queen Bee became very very very ARROGANT!!!! and lack of Sympathy or Empathy.
Later, I and the others (including male staffs) knew that Queen Bee ain't kind hearted, her speech somehow really could stabbed our heart til bleeding.
Bless me, I never want to be her again.
Gorgeous? Beautiful? Rich? High educated? Lovely, sweet and elegant scent? Haha... All are BRUUUUUFFFFFFF (tongue out), Nonsense without good inner beauty...
One lesson I've got, never be anybody, just be yourself. You have your own beauty.